Hello Ameron, First I would ask, do you have a job, with the economy the way it is, so many don't, but if you do this is a plus. If not, do you have a place in mind that you would like to live, another town, another state. Once you have answered this, if no job, what skills do you have, and what is it that makes you want to try the place that you chose. Next take your skills, get on your computer, and see what need there is for the skills you possess. Then start applying to these places that have a need for what you are able to do. Even if you get with the local job search there, it will still let you know what you are getting yourself into. Next check to see if there may be a low income housing or hud there for you to qualify for, this will insure you a residence. Also check out the school system, make sure that it's a place where you want your son to be. Then actually get on the phone and call the city department, tell them that you are thinking of making a move to the area, and which areas of the community are better than others, if there are any. Ask what the unemployment rate is there, ask what kind of community is it for a new family just starting out. If you are a church person, get the number of a local church an call the person in charge of the church, and ask the same questions. Then if you are satisfied with what you have heard, start to save what money you can to make this trip. Will family help you to put money together to help with your move, if not, maybe think of selling items that have been put away for years. Things that you may have forgotten you even had. But most important, at least in my book. Talk with your son, and get his opinion of what you are considering doing. If you are both good with it, then there should be nothing to hold you back. I hope this helped out some. Bless you and Good luck
